new woman,<P>Please don't get me wrong. I don't think I have slammed anyone intentionally or unintentionally on this board in the 8 months I have been here. (okay, maybe once or twice) I agree with most of what has been posted on this thread, which is why I said in my previous post, "a very few", meaning not many.<P>Yeah, it is difficult to understand how some on both sides of the fence are acting/reacting. If a betrayed spouse wants to save the relationship and the betrayer spouse is back, then BOTH should be working to fix it. Blaming, names calling, etc. under no circumstances will fix anything. In fact, it will cause more resentment.<P>I Love my Wife. When (if [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]) she comes home, I fully intend to NOT do any of that. After all, love is about not wanting to do something to hurt the other, but instead to build them up.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A> <BR>