Please help. My husband and I have been together for 6 years, until we recently seperated. A huge family fight has forced the two of us into different living situations, he with his family and myself and our two children with mine. I made a tremendous mistake and it broke apart our marriage. My problem is that I still love my husband with all of my heart, and want so badly to rectify this situation, but he will not talk to me. He will not take my phone calls or call me back when I leave a message. I spend all of my time crying wishing that he would just talk to me. I do not even know what he wants to do with our marriage. Another problem is that neither one of our families are supportive of our relationship, or us getting back together. He has not even called to check on our children. Please I am absolutely at my breaking point, but I do not want him to feel that I am chasing him. I do not know what to do anymore, I'm not sure that I can take this sadness for much longer.

I think we'll need more details about what you did before we can help you. Don't be afraid, there are a lot of supportive people here and much good advice to be had.

In response to your inquiry maggierose, please be prepared. I often do not talk about it because it is embarassing and causes so much pain. My husband's family is very wealthy and when we lived with them for a short time prior to this, we borrowed some money without their knowledge. When my husband relayed to me that he needed some extra funds, I got them for him. Without asking the person that I borrowed the money from, although my husband had an idea where it had come from, he is now blaming me for everything. The other problem is that my husband has issues with telling the truth and has been arrested for narcotics recently(my family's reasons for not wanting us together). But yet he continues to stay with his family, who he has stolen from, and blame me. As I write this I realize how insane I sound for wanting the relationship back, but I love him so much. The pain that I feel is overwhelming, and the fact that he wont face me makes it worse. Okay you can breathe now, please tell me what I should do. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]

It has been days, and my husband still will not talk to me. I feel that every day that goes by is one more move closer to the end of our marriage. I can barely stand this. I miss him so much. I have even resorted to having our friends call him for me, which of course, he will not take their calls either. It was exactly two weeks yesterday since I have seen him, and two weeks today that we have spoken. I cant imagine our relationship being over, we shared so much. Both joy and sorrow and happiness and love. I think about the precious times that we would lay in bed and talk about our dreams, and all I do is cry. Please someone tell me what to do.