[img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] I have been married for ten years and have 3 children. My wife stopped working 4 years ago and got board with her new life and went into sex chat rooms. About 3 years ago she went to far, I found videos for other men in our mail, phone sex with other men and a lot of lies. I almost ended the marraige, she said she would change.
recently she been sucked back in to the chat rooms again, it is taking a toll on me again. She has been cold to me and unapprochable in the last few months.When she goes in the chat rooms it makes me jealous and angry that she is doing it again. I have been putting a lot of effort into saving our marriage with little change.
For her birthday I took her into Boston for romantic weekend it went great. We had taken some pictures and when we got back I was going through them when I found a file on our computer that had a nude picture of her with happy birthday written across her body. I thuoght it may be for my birthday two days later but I never got the special gift. I felt devastated and angry.
I know she is under a lot of strain being home with the kids and doing the same thing over and over with no break in her life and no new experiances. Three weeks ago she asked if she could go on vacation alone this year and got very upset when I was did not jump at the idea.
I am going to tell her she has to leave the chat rooms because it will end our marriage if she does not. I will let her Know that I will do anything to help her (am I a sap or what)and I want our marraige back (I think it is worth saving)I feel that I may be cornering her into making an irrational decision.(thinking of the kids and me not with them kills me).<p>Please help me with some advice<p>Tom<p>[ May 09, 2002: Message edited by: jetek ]</p>

don't worry. if u are a christine take this situation to GOD.
u your wife has had an affair with the computer people if her thoughts are unClean, then she is UnClean. <img src="graemlins/teary.gif" border="0" alt="[Teary]" />
so do what is right if u are a care giver take this to god jesus christ,]
are u a christian???
get back to me and i will reply moreeee,
a blessing to u
and u'r family.
satan doesn't stop he keeps on ticking.eeeeks!!!
pwrofprayer@msmith.dhs.org

jetek,
I know the feeling you get when you W goes to these chat areas. My W has been doing the same thing over recent months. I feel this internet things brings a whole new dynamic into As and WSs...unfortunately. <p>I also feel that there are many similarities to real As and online contacts. The addiction thing for one. Are you familiar with the material and ideas from this web site? I think you need to express your concerns to your W on this matter in the proper fashion and then work with a solid Plan A. <p>This is only a start and it is hard to judge your whole situation through the little info here; post again with some more details.<p>Sweden