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how submissive are men to be like?
are men to give woman all they WANT?
are men to be the HEART or the HEAD?
GLORY BE TO OUR LORD. [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

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Men are to be submissive to Christ IN ALL THINGS
as are women..this does not mean that if the husband is not leading the wife in a bibilical manner that she should always follow..she should follow Christ first..if her spouse is way out of God's will..<p>hmmm...God doesn't even give us ALL we want..He does however provide ALL we NEED..

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by ThornedRose:
<strong>Men are to be submissive to Christ IN ALL THINGS
as are women..this does not mean that if the husband is not leading the wife in a bibilical manner that she should always follow..she should follow Christ first..if her spouse is way out of God's will..<p>And being submissive does NOT mean being a doormat..and doing "everything" he wants if it goes against God..Pray and then POJA it..<p>hmmm...God doesn't even give us ALL we want..He does however provide ALL we NEED..</strong><hr></blockquote>

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HI THORNEDROSE
oh my, u are truly a blessing, i totaly believe what god has told u to tell me.
my husband can be pretty bossy some times.
some times it feel like im holding up the house.
just pray for me my name is jennifer email me i would love to get to know u better.
u have my email address pwofprayer@msmith.dhs.org
see u later
sister.
xo gods way or the highway. [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]

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oooops i have given the wrong email address its not pw its pwrofprayer@msmith.dhs.org
im very sorry.
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->i just want to tell u all that u will be in my prayers tonight i think this site is the most beautiful site in gods county heeeheeehee!!
to everyone who is have a problem with there hubbies chin up, satan wants to take your husband and kids away. if u email me i will tell u of who i need u to pray for.
PLEASE KEEP ADDING TO MY POST.
YOUR TRULY wife&hubbi no matter what together forever and GOD said; "he who indures to the end
shall be saved" REMEMBER THAT QUOTE FROM GODS LIPS. IF U SEND ME YOUR EMAIL I WILL SEND U SOMETHING OUT OF HEAVEN ITS A SITE ...
TAKE CARE
BLESS U IN LOVEING CARE
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I don't know about you but when the GF said to me that she would be an obediant(spelling mistake) wife I turned around and told her that I was not looking for a marrital slave, I was looking for a wife and equal partner. Someone I can share my life with and do things with. Not someone who asks how high went someone says jump.This include both in and out of the bedroom.God created men and women equal,gender is the only thing different between us. I love this woman cause she is her own person compared to the ex who would jump off a bridge if her family said to.<p>231

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In reply to your reply, i love to submit to my husband it keeps me humble, and i love that felling.
when he gets bossy i have learned from god and on this forum to tell him gently that it isn't right to be bossy. Everything is to be in a time and in a season, gently, honestly, graciously, and beautifuly. all in the name of the LORD.
I AM NOT A SLAVE TO my husband buddy. i know who i am in the LORD. i am a woman of god, a woman
WHO DOES GODS work. my husband and my kids are all on a different level then i am. we are here to respect one another as idividuals.
even though my husband is on a different level then me i have learned to respect him and GOD has put him in my life for a reason. with all respect to you a submissive wife is a wife of the LORD.
GLORY BE TO THE LORD ALMIGHT MAY HE REIGN APON EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU.BLESSINGS....
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