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My W recently told me she no longer cares for me in a physical or romantic way but said does still "care about" me. We have had a few tough years for various reasons -- many due to a midlife crisis on my part that did not include any affairs or wandering. She began FT work two years ago and has developed a strong bond with her boss who she seems to confide in.
We talk but no longer communicate as we once did.
She will not seek counseling with me and I do not see how single counseling would help. After 17 years, I do not know how to solve this problem.
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Waiting2002<p>Consider your W is already in an Emotional Affair, if not a Physical one, and start Plan A right now. If the distance between you started with her FT job and you know she is close to her boss, I would say an EA is for sure. See this link for signs of an affair:<p> http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000985.html<p>Also, go to the Infidelity Forum, Just Found Out, and look at General Welcome For All New Builders, it has a lot of links and other info to get you started. I bumped it up so it is near the top and easy to find. Good luck!
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