alright, which is it... i'm really confused now.<p>talked with wife last night, after discussions she said that she was still committed to this marriage, wears her wedding ring, hopes that we can building a healthy relationship, and have our family together... yet she moved out 4 days ago, and insists on living apart for the period of atleast a year...<p>it sounds like an oxy-moron to me... act naturally...<p>part of my difficulty is that she moved out w/o letting me know about it first (this is the second time... and I wonder why I have had these fears for the last year?) she took all of OUR things that she wanted (w/o my input) and left me with the financial responsibilities that she did not want... home, RV, vehicle, misc. credit items... her comment is to "just sell them". <p>military intelligence... extra money...<p>on one hand, i think about selling our home, but it is difficult... i definitely don't need all of that room for son & me... then again, i have this feeling that if I sell (dissolve) what we have built together, then that is a step away from trying to add something positive toward working through this marriage...<p>found missing... constructive criticism...<p>...for as long as i can remember, we have been "trying to work this out"... i tend to always step up to the plate and take care of things... i don't know about it this time... i went back to school a few years ago to develop a career and to get ahead in "life"... not to work all of the time just to pay bills... if she doesn't fulfill her responsibilites and i do them for her, then that's exactly what i'll be doing... using all of my resources just to break even...<p>
original copy... loose tights...<p>does anyone understand? (of course you do, that's why i'm posting it here...)
