I have a fairly new "friend" who is a very nice guy, likes me and my kids, we get along pretty well. We have been making love, and it is enjoyable, but alot of times I end up getting hurt physically because he gets a little rough. I have told him to tone it down, and he does, but it usually happens again next time. Also, he has something of a fettish with submissive/dominant relationships and talks to people online about it alot. He also likes to manufacture leather cuffs and tie-downs. He says he would never use them on me, but it bothers me when he talks about it. He says he's joking. Also, he likes to grab me in intimate places in public and talk about sex in public within earshot of people such as my boss, etc. I think he's disrespectful of my wishes, he disagrees, says that's just how he is. What do you folks think? I recently broke it off with him and am currently seeing someone else, but this guy is trying to "make things right" and get back together with me again..
thanks!