I felt at 35 years of hard living that I had found my soulmate. I have been through hell with him as he battered me for some time. As that stopped and things progressed, we moved to another state and his new work has enabled me to see him 1 year of the 4 we lived here. I know no-one and am feared by his acquaintances. they have gone to great lengths to come between us as well as my Mother, and daughter. We are going to lose it. We love each other but he cheated on me recently for first time and he told me. I know this man and he felt almost as regretful as I did betrayed. But things went haywire and he wants to divorce me (within 3 days) everything was goimng in a positive direction but now is out of control. I only said to him as of today as he has a date for the weekend amongst all our freinds. "Do what you have to do to get this sorted out. I will wait faithfully as I always have been, just don't come back to me dirty, I have not been with another man before 2/16/96!" (STD's) Of course this is a brief summary. I am killed and need to know about what happens to older men w/ medical disorders, e.g. thyroid (lack of) heart problems, Steroid use etc. I am desperately trying to stop him with out the ultimatum but he claims to be doing this to get over me, He loves me, our sex is the best that either have ever had and I am lost. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
<small>[ July 13, 2002, 05:05 AM: Message edited by: Devoted1 ]</small>
