Hi Ezra,
Yes our H's need to understand many things, but are sometimes very stubborn to realize that a new person is only a trade and nothing is really better or going to be. The H still has the same problems he had here, without counselling he is not going to figure all this out byhimself! I am very lucky as my love for my husband out weights the bad! I really do love him with all my heart. I think he knows this. He was always so sad when he came here, I thought it as bold, but do understand as he thought he was helping me in a samll way by mowing the lawn. Guess he did not have to care, but he did and that small gesture made my heart soar! Dumb right? Well I know now deep in my heart - had to sort out feelings that he will be home someday. I only hope it is with a new attitude and the determination to hold tight and do this marriage right. More communication will help lot! He hides like I do - we just do not fight much.
I am so glad you liked the definition of Love it is so very true. I think this is why so many marriages fail. In the old days marriage meant so much more and they stayed as society did not let them wander as much or they hid it well, but marriage was for ever not like today where they can just move on and even divorce court makes it way to easy! NO FAULT? Our Gov should make it a tougher law. To many children get hurt also and it is just not fair. Yes I love kids! Well I guess I rattled on long enough, but Thanks for your reply! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />