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#58166 07/19/02 04:26 AM
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I have a problem with the Rule Of Protection. It says that you should not be the cause of your spouse's pain.

But my WS is suffering from abuse, when I am low and raise the A she gets very upset, verbally abusive and screams "leave me alone", I effectively am always the cause of her pain.

It seems to be a whole abuse - guilt - affair - guilt - abuse cycle that I don't know how to break?

Anyone have any suggestions? Ben Richards

<small>[ August 05, 2002, 10:37 AM: Message edited by: The Running Man ]</small>

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Running Man:

If your spouse refuses to discuss the betrayal and screams at you, you are going to have acknowledge that she doesn t want to talk with you.

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