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My H speaks to me using sarcastic tones. He never admits nor realizes it. It has become hurtful. I addressed this with him tonight and he blew up. Claiming he did not. Even left the house. This is his usual rebuttal. Normally I don't say anything and just clam up. I appoligized when he came back for anything I may have said that was also in inappropriate tones, to make sure he knew I needed to tell him how it makes me feel but didn't want to do to him what he does to me. He began lecturing me again. How he didn't deserve to be told....All I wanted to do was give the dog a bath before dinner, and I had gotten all sorts of attitude. Bottom line he wanted dinner then and not in half an hour. And didn't realize he was being crass to me. I feeling smothered. HELP!!!!!!
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At the risk of stating the obvious... if he wanted his dinner right away, he could have cooked it up for both of you... The only legit excuse I can think of is that he's a total incompetant in the kitchen or something...
On the other stuff, it sounds like everything is "me" instead of "us". Selfishness can be a big hurtle to get over for some.
just my 2 cents
<small>[ April 29, 2003, 09:15 AM: Message edited by: Carlos ]</small>
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