<img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I have been married for 15 years (we have 1 teen daughter) Over the whole marriage my husband has kept many HUGE secrets from me (LIES), which he would reveal bits and pieces of at various times in our life.

He has admitted to having an encounter with a man approx 13 years ago, embezzlement (approx 10 yrs ago-never caught) in the 5 digit area, 2 years ago he wrote bad checks in the 5 digit range, he had to declare emergency bankruptcy to keep from going to jail. Most recently he is living in another state (preparing for us to join him-or so I thought) While speaking on the phone with him he blurted out that he had gone to dinner ALONE with a married female coworker. He also mentioned that a friend of ours was going to loan us money to move.

He saw nothing wrong with spending an evening alone with a married coworker and sees nothing wrong with taking money from a friend. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> (He's been away for 3 months and was supposed to be saving $ for us to join him-not taking other women to dinner!)

I'm just sick <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> about this & I'm ready to give up... If you have any words of wisdom-they would be appreciated. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ April 07, 2004, 10:20 PM: Message edited by: want2Bloved ]</small>