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Is using spyware on a WS wrong when the computer was their main tool in the A? I feel like the computer is the easiest tool to use and the easiest to hide your tracks in too.
Any thoughts?
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I do not think its wrong.....but it is something which is last resort. You use it if you are sure there is a relationship being tended on the puter and spouse says it is not and you are very sure they are lying about it.
It is the only realistic way to verify that indeed the spouse is being truthful (they would not have to hide this) or NOT (oh....how embarrassing to be spied on and found to be lying!)
I haven't used it yet....but would if it came down to a critical juncture (when spouse was most likely hiding an affair from me)
My 2 cents.
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I used it and confirmed an EA. The danger is that if your spouse is violent the intrusion or invasion of privacy can trigger some bad things.
Also don't make the mistake I made and confront the WS right away. Monitor for a week or 3 and get ALL the information you need.
Just my CP.
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