I am married for 13 years. At the begginig we had a very rough couple of years, his family does not like me at all sinve the begining, (got pregnat at 17 and his was 22) We were separated for 4 years before we reunited, in the US, since that we build a lot together, had another child 8 now,and bought a house. We have parts were he is was a very phisycal (twice) and Ikept most to myself, given him all the money and he is responsible for the financial decisions. Until, I got tired and went on a spend mode, I accrue around 40,000.00 in debt. I am paying and he found out, we are in many, many verbal fights altely. He told the entire family my problems and everyone hates me more. I had a live in nany who made him fight with family because they were gossiping about me, that I have stolen his money and to many things to write. The issue is that I have done something wrong and admited and accepted my error and paying now. This had taken a toll on us, I have tried very hard, but anything I do, even if is wright, he says I am lying and does not trust em. My daughter have several and deep issue with him, since he was not present on her first 4 years, however he does show he spoil the son a lot.
Recently he borrow his credit card for buing some gifts for a birthday party. I did end up spending on clothes for the children 400,00 and did not tell him until the bill came. Now hes treating me to divorce and the concequences. I am ready to divorce, he has a temper and verbaly abuse anyone around him because of this. I have no support from his family at all, they don't anknoledge my children existence. No visits, phone calls and no cards in the mail, and I do remember everyone everything, just for the sake of the children to feel theu have grandparents and uncles. I believe I should leave this man, would be the right thing. I am concerned only to see if I will have a life after this, to find someone that can trust me and I trusting the person...I am very confused now and scared