Anyone with blended families?

Yes me - and if you are looking for people who have problems with step children causing trouble and conflict within a marriage I can supply you with a great forum to go to. Is that what you are looking for?

I would like to know where the forum is myself. Please send me the direction to the website.
Thanks

We're blending, too!

Yes, Yes, Yes!!! Thank you! I have three step kids, two boys, and a girl. Along with my two daughters from my first marriage. My husband has custody of his kids, and I have raised them for ten years. I truely love them with all of my heart, but no matter what, they will never accept me or my girls. This past year they all have showed out untill they all left the home. My husband was furious and immediately blamed me. But he calmed down and says that he now knows it's not me. But he is so sad!! They don't call or come see him. And I feel like deep inside he blames me. I'm so scared that eventually he'll come to the conclusion that if he gets rid of me, he could have his family back!!!! I don't know what to do. In an extreme emergency, I would be there for any one of them. But I will never kiss a** again!! But I would never deny my husband his time with them!!! If I could heal my relationship with my step kids I would. But after doing everything and anything for them for ten years, I don't see that I could possibly do any more than I allready have!! And yes I am heart broken over it!! So I know how my husband must feel!!! But even on the RARE occasions that they come around they try anything they can to cause problems!! The stress is getting to be UNBAREABLE! Any advice?

I hope this works. If not try a query - step family zone. www.stepfamily.asn