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According to the bible I and my wife committed adultery when we got married (both of our 2nd)this has presented a problem with my faith journey does any one have any bible based solutions for this problem <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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First,
Refuse to accept or believe that the bible would get in the way of a great marriage. As you continue to explore the Bible I gaurantee you that it will provide you ways to love your wife now better than you ever have. I recommend you read 1 Corinthians 13th chapter about love and apply it to your relationship now.
Second, understand that you have already remarried, and to divorce again would be a sin (except in the case of adultery), so start from where you are. If you have asked for forgiveness and meant it, then that you have committed adultery by remarrying is forgiven. Romans 10:9 if we ask forgiveness of our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us. God is a God of forgiveness. Only the Devil would want you to dwell on past sins. Focus on your future with your wife. Now that you are remarried review scripture about how Christ sees marriage, ie a man that finds a woman (marries) finds a good thing, and many more. If you desire more scripture reference, I will be glad to provide the chapter and verse for you to explore. Last, pray with your wife about your marriage. I know that what you will find is God hears your prayers and he loves the union you joined into in his name. I hope this helps,

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Thank you Joe Black for your post I have been searching the Bible for just such a verse I was blinded to 1 Corinthians 13th that is a powerful verse I will use it to build my confidence in the correctness of my marriage. I had become so caught up in Matthew 19 Mark 10:2 Luke 18 I had gained a small amount of comfort from 1 Corinthians 7 but it gets some what confusing around 29 thank you once again you have helped


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