I was married for 7 years and my exhusband and I began fighting and we got to that point in the end. I also met someone and thought I could never love my exhusband again.
Now looking back I wish that I would not have gotten that divorce and allowed my exhusband that chance to show me his changes. At the time I felt that 7 years of marraige was enough time for him, so I was unwilling to let him show me his changes. I gave the new person the chance.
Well after my divorce was final, about 3 months later, the new person decided that he did not really want to be in a real relationship. It was just about lust & sex.
A few months later, I wished that I would have given my exhusband that chance. I wish that my heart would have not been so hard on him. My exhusband was not willing to go to counseling until our divorce happened and I still would have given him a chance looking back.
He got remarried and I am now too. That marraige was definately the best relationship I ever had. It hurt our family, children, nieces/nephews, inlaws (we got along) so much. I hated the look in the children & families eyes afterwards and still miss everyone.
I firmly believe that if you once had love feelings, you can get them back but it will take work. Your husband is willing to work... I would give him a chance. That is my opinion. And it takes time, nothing happens over night.
If you believe in God, He hates divorce. God can do all things and heal your hearts. I will be praying for you.
