I am extremely upset right now....i have a 15 yr old and 8 yr old daughter. My H smokes pot which i do not agree with, but have tolerated. I have told him to keep it away from here, i told him i do not want it around anywhere here...he said he would. Around 6 months ago my oldest daughter found some in the garage, and today she is home with her friends and they catch him smokin with a friend of his! I am so upset, so hurt and so angry! i don't know what to say to my daughter...i have told her i don't want her doing it, that i don't agree with it...and now she sees her dad doing it...she told me he is not a good influence on me. Im so mad at him...i phoned him and said "how could you? what the hell were you thinking???" he tried to justify himself, saying she is blowing this out of proportion! i don't konw where to go with this...i mean what does this show his daughter? her and her friends think that its hypocritical to sit there and say don't do this and then he is doing it.i'll tell you every day i see more and more reason to leave this man! i am so upset and so hurt.

I hope you read this reply maby we can help e/o out my H has been an addic for years every thing from beer to pot to crank and most resently he burned down our house while high on ice (soposdely it was a slip after being clean 1yaer) When i saw his drug test in the hospital after he was burnt i made him go in to rehab for the first time in his life !!!but any way back to your post if your H is smoking pot he could be doing other things and your kid's could be in more danger than you could think dont put up w/ any drug use incist he stop or leave befor it is to late!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />