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I AM IN LOVE WITH MY GIRLFRIEND...SHE TAKES MEDICATION FOR SOME HEAD PROBLEMS - WE BROKE UP RECENTLY...I WENT BACK TO THE MOTHER OF MY 3 CHILDREN...THE MOTHER OF MY KIDS IS IN LOVE WITH ME AND WANTS ME BACK...WHILE WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CONNECTION WITH THE KIDS...THE FEELINGS ARE JUST NOT THERE...I WANT TO BE BACK WITH MY GIRLFRIEND-SHE ONLY WANTS ME BACK IF I CAN COME HOME WITH NO DRAMA OR ISSUES...MY FAMILY HATES MY GIRLFRIEND CAUSE SHE HAS BEEN VERY OPIONATED ...(UNWARRENTED)I HAVE LOST FRIENDS...MY HOME, MY FAMILY...AND BASICALLY JUST FEEL ALONE...I AM NOW STAYING WITH FRIENDS BECAUSE I HAVE NO WHERE TO GO...I DON'T WANT TO LIVE IN MY CAR...HOW DO I RESOLVE THIS? HOW DO I START OVER AND BEGIN WITH A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP? PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME...LAST NIGHT I TALKED TO MY GIRLFRIEND...SHE SAID I COULD COME HOME...THEN MY EX CALLED AND I TALKED TO HER FOR A MINUTE...I TOLD MY EX THAT I WAS GOING TO GO BACK TO MY GIRLFRIEND...MY EX HAD A FIT, HAS NOW THREATENED TO TAKE MY KIDS OUT OF STATE...SO I TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND WHO HAD A FIT AND SAID NOPE!!! CAN'T COME HOME WITH ISSUES OR DRAMA...I AM LOST...VERY VERY LOST
I WAS NOT PLAYING ONE AGAINST THE OTHER...
I FEEL PLAYED...
THE ONLY THING I AM GUILTY OF IS BEING HONEST AND SEE WHAT THAT GOT ME!!!
EVEN THOUGH I AM STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH MY GIRLFRIEND...MY OTHER FRIEND...A FEMALE...SAID TO LEAVE THEM BOTH ALONE...DO NOT CALL EITHER ONE OF THEM AND TO GIVE IT SOME TIME...
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME...
LOST IN MISSOURI
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Please turn off your CAPS lock.
It is very difficult to read. Also, ALL CAPS is the equivalent of yelling.
How long have you been divorced from your ex?
Why did you get divorced?
When you say, you “went backâ€, what does this mean? You moved in with her? You are dating again?
I WANT TO BE BACK WITH MY GIRLFRIEND-SHE ONLY WANTS ME BACK IF I CAN COME HOME WITH NO DRAMA OR ISSUES
You have 3 kids with another woman. There will ALWAYS be “issuesâ€.
MY FAMILY HATES MY GIRLFRIEND CAUSE SHE HAS BEEN VERY OPIONATED ...(UNWARRENTED)
Is she saying negative/bad things about your family or to them? If so, then it is not “unwarrantedâ€.
I WAS NOT PLAYING ONE AGAINST THE OTHER.
Sounds like they are playing you though.
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please forgive me for all caps...
i went to my childrens mom to stay for a few days...we have agreed that this can happen...it was not a sexual thing...just to be there with my kids...
i left my ex girlfriend about a week ago...
yes, i guess i have been played...
but, what do i do now?
where do i turn ?
how do i start over?
thanks for replying
what is plan b?
i appreciate all of your help...
male in missouri
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How long have you been divorced from your ex?
Why did you get divorced?
i went to my childrens mom to stay for a few days...we have agreed that this can happen...it was not a sexual thing...just to be there with my kids...
i left my ex girlfriend about a week ago...
What (and why) happened between you and your girlfriend?
Why did you move in with your ex?
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i moved out of my girlfriends house (our house) at first because things were not going well at all...my kids mother was going to movwe my kids to another state...that made things bad at my girlfriends house...the kids mom got worse after me...so the girlfriend and i talked and we came to a decision that SHE did not want to interfere with my kids...i left...knowing it would not work for me and my kids mom...three days later...i have been in hotel's and friends homes...
in answer to your question, i was never married to my kids mother...we just didn't get married...
i did not want to leave the girlfriend...it was just that she wanted me to go instead of deal with guilt i guess over my kids...
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Let's try this again.
How long have you been divorced from your ex?
Why did you get divorced?
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