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what do i do here
#60315 03/13/05 06:07 PM
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i am new here, but i need some help with my marraige. my husband is a wonderful man, but lately, he does nothing. and i dont mean almost nothing......i mean nothing at all. he sits here all day, rarely goes to work, and never helps me with the house, kids, anything.i am at my wits end and every time i try to talk to him about it, he gets mad at me. what am i supposed to do here? i dont want to leave him, but i cant put up with him like this any longer.
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#60316 03/13/05 08:56 PM
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Sounds like something else is going on......I am sure u hv asked u say he gets mad.......ask if he wants to save what you have and tell him it would help u out a lot to know what is going on and for his help at home and with the kids....If you know God first of all......Pray to him...ask him to guide your words and actions...try and be patient......there is no clear cut answer, believe me I know.....having many problems myself....other women....No answer here I suppose but maybe some of these suggestions will get you help......if you know someone who he confides in or trusts and will talk to him try that also.
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Specifically how do you bring it up, and specifically what does he say?

There are ways to bring up painful topics that have a chance of success, and there are ways that pretty much guarantee disaster.

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