My W and I have been married for nine years come May and we've been slowly drifting apart for the last couple of years, but it hasn't been that bad. Sometime in Feb she underwent a weird personality change, and when I confronted her with it, she told me she loved me more like a friend than a lover. It was a total bombshell to my heart. Initially I became mad and tried to defend myself, and asked what had happened to make her feel like that. She said she didn't have a clue. Now she has these two friends, one is a single mother and the other is getting a divorce, who call my house all the time, and they always ask her to spend all her spare time with them. They both know that we are having a hard time but still the phone rings off the hook. Whenever I confronted her about them she got mad at me and told me she's sick of hearing me nagging about them. <BR>I know, after a lot of soul searching, that I emotionally neglected her the first three years we were married and I feel horrible about it. I've been reading this sight for about three weeks now and I know she is in withdrawal, but I don't know what to do other than continue to show and tell her how much I really do love her. We also have a seven yr. old boy who would be shattered if we split. HELP!!

edited<p>[This message has been edited by HollyAnn (edited July 07, 1999).]