I have a question. I just found out about the book "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay". I understand there is a questionaire to help one decide if one should leave or stay. My problem is that my h is the one that left. Doesn't want to risk getting back together (?!?) However, I have been practicing the 'Tough Love' suggestion and have written him the 'letting go' letter. So how would I present this questionaire to him now? Any suggestions.