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Dear Dr. Harley:<P>I am totally confused and disapointed because of my situation. I have been married for 2 years and have a 4 month old baby, since i was pregnant my husband began to tell me that he was confused because he felt he didn't love me anymore. I was trying to do many things to help our marriage, but he does not have the will to do anything, when i found your web i made him to fill both of your questionaries and he did, but told me that all this stuff is to rebuild marriages and he feels that our relationship has ended.<BR>I feel that if he could will we can save our marriage, now we are going to separate but i still think that we can do something for us. Please tell me what can i do, Do i have to let him go? or there is something else i can do?
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Pilar, So sorry that your heart is hurting. How has your marriage been up to the point of his Telling you about his confusion? Have you two been communicating, fighting? What is your prospective? There must be some emotional needs that your husband perhaps feels has been overlooked or neglected. Did the emotional questionaire reflect that both of you were not satisfying emotional needs?<BR>Sorry for all the questions...I'm sure that the birth of a child has changed things...I have heard where some men become jealous of the child because of the attention that it takes away from them. This could in effect build resentment in a spouse. Read everything on this site... the information is excellent. I hope things get back to normal. I have faith that they will.<BR>ruby
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