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About 3 months ago my wife's brother-in-law moved here. His wife (my wifes sister) stayed behind till the house sold. The brother-in-law is originally from here and his entire family lives here. While his wife or my wifes sister was 1,000 miles away. This guy and my wife go lunch 3 times during this 3 month period. I might add alone. My wife and her sister are not real close. I would say that they talk on the phone about 3 or 4 times a year. My wife thinks that there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. I think otherwise. Let me know??
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Joined: Nov 1999
Posts: 14
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Christen,<P>Just because they went to lunch alone means nothing. Did they go to lunch and specifically ask you not to go? Could your wife be listening to her Brother-in-law vent about her sister? Give your wife some space. As little as you have expressed sounds innocent. Take your wife to lunch and ask her if everything is ok with her Brother-in-law and sister. Express your concerns of their well-being then backoff and listen. Don't read into anything for it may be naive. <P>There has been many times I should have done the same! Stay close to your wife with hugs and kisses and give her freedom. If you pressure her she will clam-up, if she has something to share she will tell you. Good Luck!
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Prior to this time wy wife knew of no marital problems. Now they are getting divorce cause he has been cheating on her. He (wife's brother in law) has told his wife to tell her sister (my wife) to stop calling him...
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