My husband told me September 18 the he no longer lover me, did a 180 inside of 2 hours,and said we'd be together forever. Then, 6 weeks later, October 28, he told me he was wrong - that he didn't really love me. I finally kicked him out. We separated November 19. He came home last Tuesday, just before Christmaas. Told me he was home for good. That he loved me. That he was committed to the marriage. That he wanted to build our relationship. Then, December 26, I asked him when he was giving up his apartment. I found out he's not giving it up. Says he wants to work things out, but needs that "back door" "just in case..." Like a fool, I've let him stay here anyway. He has the best of both worlds - acn be with me and his daughter- at his convenience - and run away whenever he feels like it! I love him, and I don't want to lose him, but I can't let him have it both ways... What do I do NOW?<P>------------------<BR>Anne46