My wife and I have been going through a tough time the last 3 1/2 weeks. She has become emotionally involved with a man whom she met on the internet. She has been to see him twice. While I believe her when she says nothing has happened between them, she also has said as recently as 72 hours ago that she thinks she is in love with him.<P>We just came out of a counselling session about an hour ago. In it, there was a clear display of anger from her for my perceived (in her view) "unwillingness" to not seek help for our problems.<P>We have allowed our life together to revolve around our son. We have had little real intimacy, but have conitinued to have sex (until the last 3 weeks).<P>I am getting real mixed signals from her. Last night she hugged me, looked into my eyes and said "I am really trying". This on the heels of a weekend conversation in which she said we "were over" and that she wanted a divorce.<P>I know she is confused, but I don't know what to really believe right now. I am reading extensviely and can see many clear areas that need help in our marriage. It appears as if I am the only one willing to work toward a reconciliation right now.<P>She is still living in our house, and talks with her new "friend" at least 4 times a day. They talked last night for 3 1/2 hours.<P>I feel that as long as she has this involvement that there is no way that our marriage has a chance? Please give me your thoughts on this.<P>I believe that I am doing the right thing. I am praying daily for God to take control of our hearts individually, take away our pain, and to take control of our marriage. I am also praying for him to end this outside relationship. Am I on the right track?<P>This marriage is saveable....I deeply want to save it. I LOVE my wife and do not want to see this end.<P>Thanks for your help.