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#61022 02/25/00 10:33 PM
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Trying to set up another time to talk with H. I printed out everything in the marriage builders site to over with him. He actually came home at 7:30 on a Fri nite so we could go someplace. Turns out, tho, he had made arrangements for us to meet out with some friends of his. I said no, we need to talk. He refuses. Now he is in his sweats and refuses to talk about our problems. Says I will just criticize him. I can't take this.

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Therese, <BR>I also need to talk to my husband for about 2 weeks now but don't know the right time. I tried to talk to him before going to sleep but he said, as always, "I have nothing to say" when I pushed a little more, he said he was tired and had to go to sleep. I could have carried on but I don't think that is the right attitude to start a conversation like this. I think these kinds of discussions rely more on each of your moods and attitudes at the time than a set hour/place. Try again when there is no pressure and if he says not now maybe you can ask him in a non-threatening way when would be a good time. Let me know what happens. I think getting a spouse who is not a sharer to share is a really tough job. Do you feel like you are walking on eggs? I do.


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