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We can go up to 2 weeks with my spouse not allowing one single touch. I asked my spouse if the problem was me or if it was anything I could do to make our love making better. My spouse states "I'm just not into it now and I just don't want to half do it. I want to give you a 100% when we do come together." Now I can understand that point. But what I don't understand is does it take a day, week, month, year to give your spouse 100% everyday. I thought that is what you were supposed to do not only with sex but everything. So I am at my wits end. I have tried all sorts of romance. Do I just have to face the fact that I am doomed to be sexually DEPRIVED for the rest of my marriage.
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I was hoping someone besides me would answer you. I've been deprived for a long time. I feel forsaken and I don't know the cause. What I can tell you is my method of handling it has been a huge mistake. Waiting for things to get better doesn't work. You have some work to do. You'll need to be a safe harbor for him to confide the reasons behind his actions. No angry outbursts or LBs if his confessions hit a nerve. It's not easy. I hope you solve your issues faster than me! When you make some attempts at getting closer, come back and post some more. I'll be interested to see what works for you and what doesn't. One more thing. His "reasons" ring hollow. I suspect there's something he's not telling you yet.
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