I really don't know what to do. I really don't know what I can do. My wife and I have been married for a year now. We were having alot of little problems that started to building up. I didn't realize what was going on. We decided that she was going to go back home for a while in another state so that we could spend some time away from the situation and think through things. I was going to join her in the spring after I got everything ready here. <P>She left the week before X-mas. X-mas day she called and said "Merry X-mas, I want a divorce". <P>Now I am here and she is there. 1500 miles away from each other. I am debating on trying to move out there like I had planned before all this. But I don't want to push her away. I know that we had a good marriage before the problems started. I know that we could work through things. She has said that she knows that we could work things out, but she doesn't want to. <P>She has told me that she is going back to her ex-boyfriend. A guy who has nothing but trouble in his background. Drugs , Alcohol, Etc. She says he treats her well. I never treated her wrong. We had some communication issues. We had things that we needed to work on and learn. But, nothing that any other couple has not gone through. It doesn't make sense that we need a divorce.<P>I don't know what to do.