Hey out there!<BR> I am still knew at this and have posted once before. I have a question that I have not seen yet. I've been lurking for about 6 mos. I think this is a great place for the BS's. It's like talking to a friend who really understands. I don't happen to know anyone who has gone through any EMA's or at least they're not telling. <P>Anyway, on with the question. My husband had an A for about 8 mos. She says 18 mos. He says she exagerated this figure. It began while I was pregnant as an EA and became a SA until I was about 6 mos. postpartum. I believe this was partly the reason he was looking for the sex. He says it has nothing to do with my being pregnant. I guess he thinks it makes the affair seem less horrible if he denies that as a reason. He thinks having sex with a pregnant women is gross. We did have pseudo-sex I guess while I was pregnant but he acted like it was as enjoyable as dental work. Does anyone have any comments or experience to help me with this?<P>------------------<BR>

Hi Viva...<P>I don't have any wise words for you...<P>but I know where you could find some!<P>Try cutting and pasting your message onto the Infidelity board. There's much more "traffic" there.<P>Good luck!