Well if you have read my others you know this has been going on a while Well know we are seperated. My H says he needs time to see what it is like with out us But in the mean time I am wreck! He says he has NO feelings for me and does not even want to touch me. He says he can really tell I am trying but It may be to late so for know He is living with a friend and We do not communicate He wants to come 2 days a week to see the kids what should I do? If he needs time should he be coming here I do not know?? We are not fighting this is all been on good terms he says he just doesn't know what will make him happy?? HELP

MM,
I think it is time to do a big Plan A and start focusing on yourself more. He's going to do what he wants to do...don't worry about it.
If you haven't already done so, read everything you can out there on relationships. There's lots of good reading suggestions on the MB site.<p>Time for a new look, new hairstyle, some new clothes? Time to lose a few pounds (or maybe gain a few)? Show him that "new" you!! Not the scared little puppy dog, but the better more self-confident you! There is nothing worse for a M than to have his foxy W have the potential to lure in other men...He'll come around, patience.<p>It is hard to tell what the situation is with him wanting to hang out 2 days per week. It's great that he wants to be with the kids, but maybe he also wants some sort of security net with you. It is up to you how you want to deal with it... Maybe you want to have some time to yourself while he is over at your place, and you leave when he is there. Think of what is best for the kids also, but if it will lead to a bunch of LBing, then it is best you are not there.<p>
Get busy working on yourself and then he will come back!<p>Good Luck!<p>Sweden