My wife has been sneaking around with a friend and i cought them, she is mad because i check up on her.She says i dont trust her its really hard to when i feel she shouldnt hang out with guys alone and she feels she can and tells me to deal with it.She has been gone this time for 37 days.She wont give me a second look or even councel with me at our church she is really falling into a hole and im trying to catch her before she falls.Its been real hard to run my company and the house hold at the same time but today was the worst i never miss my sons baseball and today i droped the ball and didnt take him to his pictures or his game.When i remembered it was to late,i asked my wife thats the reason we need to work things out and councel she said let me have the kids and i wont miss anything.I feel she left us and if she wants back she needs to show us not make excuses. TROUBLED HUSBAND [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

Just wanted you to know your post IS being read although I don't have any answers for you.
You are trying to do all and be all--what a wonderful Dad!! Don't beat yourself up about the baseball thing even tho it's hard.
You might get more responses if you move this post to the emotional needs forum..it's a very busy and current place.

SH,
Yes, you are being taken advantage of in this situation and it is easy to see how it presents such stress in your life. Don't over do it!
My WW is still mad for me finding the "evidence" of her multiple As. She feels it is ok for her to partake in these actions, but it is not allowable for me to snoop. <p>Without knowing more about your situation, I would say that you need to place all the emphasis on yourself and the little ones. Read what you can to help better understand the situation. Your W is not rational right now, and it will be impossible to control her irrational actions and behaviors.<p>Keep posting!<p>Sweden