You didn't bust in at all. I was hoping others read and commented.<P>No transfer yet. <P>Good news is though that he said he "loved" her twice in three days in the past tense. He is still very confused and looking for that passion that comes with a new relationship with me. I think only God could place that there. Well see. Would be nice though. I'd like to feel that feeling again. It is wonderful. <P>The transfer would make things so much better. We could start new as I had said.<P>I appreciate your advise and wisdom too. Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and help. Your words helped me feel a bit better.<P>Today is monday and mondays are hard. After one day off he goes back to work and sees her again and when he comes home gloomy I am bummed and I wonder if they spoke. I always have to ask him. He never offers.<P>So now how are things with you? <P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>

Going on a short vacation tomorrow. Got to pack. My H started new job today...see the thread to Dazed for more info on that.<P>H has been great for the most part. I seem fine too.<P>Busy Busy Busy, though. In the course of all this, what books have you read?<P>And think about posting on those forgiveness threads. It is an interesting discussion and would love your insight.<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

Hi again,<P>I have reading After the Affair and Surving An Affair. Not much else. Also anything and everything that is on this site. Not just the postings. I even printed it. Have a large note book full of it all. <P>I was thinking of private lies...but don't know. Yeah I will have to look up all those threads. <P>I still feel pretty weak at giving others advise. Don't feel like I have many answers.<P>Have a great mini vacation.<P>You'll be in a special prayer. <P>Oh yeah I read that post on husbands new job. I am praying hoping and have faith that it will make things even more wonderful between you. Changes can be good.<P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Samantha-MI (edited August 30, 1999).]