I have just endured a traumatic 9 months whilst my husband had an affair.He never left home and I endured the crisis because I love him and wanted to keep the family together.The affair has now finished but he now tells me that he has no feelings for me or for our 2 children.What the heck do I do, he won't cooperate with any guidance and I feeltotally powerless now to reignite the love we used to have .Any suggestions?