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Before we were married, my husband got close to his ex-girlfriend's daughter. But this child is not his. He knew that I didn't like this situation one bit because in order to talk to the little girl, he always had to talk to the mother first and this makes me feel uncomfortable. He is still doing the same thing now since he's married. I don't like it one bit and I know it is going to cause problems if he continues. What if I called my ex-boyfried, whom he can't stand, and said that I really miss your niece (and I really do) and I would like to start calling her and talking to her. How would this make him feel?
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I can only say that it is possible that your H truly has feelings for this little girl and he honestly misses her and her alone. He may feel badly that he has had to cut ties with her because he no longer has a relationship with her mother. He sounds like a compassionate man and you should communicate your feelings to him so he can relieve the anxieties you have over this situation
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