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help???? I do not know how long I should take it if I want to grow my marriage, my wife is always adopting a stone wall and silent treatment that can last for weeks and her latest is that she has enough of me and is filing for divorce!!!!
I wonder if I should keep pursuing because I DO NOT believe that divorce is the answer, we'll 4 very young children and I believe that I still have the faith to keep our marriage but I just can't get thru to her.

Pls advise what I can do to build her up again, she's still very angry and not ready to even consider forgiveness. pls help and pray, thanks.

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Hello timkoh - and Welcome,

Please tell us more.

What is your W angry about most of the time?

Does your W work outside the home or is she a SAHM (Stay At Home Mom)?

How is her relationship with the kids?

How involved are you in childcare? (4 kids is a lot for one woman to keep track of.)

What was your W's family like when she was growing up? Were her parents divorced? Did she have a happy childhood in general? What was her dad like?

Oh, and you might try posting under the "emotional needs" section of the forum - since a lot more people read over there. You'll get more responses that way.

-AD

PS. I have an angry W too.

<small>[ November 08, 2004, 04:25 PM: Message edited by: AD ]</small>


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