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Double Whammy??
#63766 08/25/00 04:27 PM
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My EX-H married his affair partner, which we all know is not a good basis for a healthy marriage. Apparently, neither is living together first, which he also did for about a year until our divorce was final, and then he married her. Many have quoted statistics for failed marriages that started out as affairs. What about marriages that not only started as affairs, but the parties were living together before they were married, while one or both were separated, but still legally married to someone else. Will there be a double curse on these marriages?!? (One can only hope!!!!!....)
Re: Double Whammy??
#63767 08/25/00 10:31 PM
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At least you have a sense of humor.<P>I guess all that I can offer is that these situations "usually" don't work as they weren't started on the basis of trust. How long could this other woman actually trust him to not have a repeat performance?<P>Also, how much time do you think they had to really get to know each other during this year, I would assume that a majority of it had his emotions somewhat connected to you.<P>I would say that there are several whammys.<P>Hope this helps.

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