We have been going pretty good. I have been hurting less and moving on then this:<P>I am completely depressed today. I call my partner on his cell phone and it went into voicemail.<P>I heard the voicemail I left earlier when I got into work and heard four saved messages from voicemail and it sounds like the same person. Female call one Nov 4th stating "Hi baby, i am sorry about yesterday, it so frustrating in this situation, i know you are taking care of busy over there but i hope to see you monday, love you" second call 11/13 same voice saying "call me back" then third call 11/19 saying " to call her at a different number" and the fourth call 11/27 saying to "call her". <P>I was upset, called him at work about this, he denied the calls. I told him that I know it was his voicemail. He said I don't know what you are talking about, but I haven't talked to that person since last month when we broke off. I told you she had left that message. Please don't go backwards, to push me away. He said he loved me and would I want to marry him this weekend and would make me feel secure. I said I wanted a nice wedding and yes I do want to start planning it now. we hung up.<P>He call me back to see how I was doing and to tell me he is through with that and he has not spoke with her. I kept quite. hung up.<P>He called again, to see how I was doing. At this point I told him to be completely honest and tell me the truth, he said the same thing.<P>I then called him back to tell him to be as honest with me as when he told me about the A. He said nothing is going on. I asked is there another person he said no. He said i don't know who voicemail you got into. I left it alone and did some general conversation.<P>What do you all think? He call me about three times in a row to see if I was ok and could get beyond this, because it was not his voicemail. I wonder if he did saved them did not contact her, but made the mistake of saving these message and is feeling guilty, can't admit it. Do you think? or he just blew it save the messages and got caught. He keeps saying there are not in his voicemail, he doesn't know what I am talking about. I even asked is there another OW. He said no, he is with me, I have been calling you more to make you feel more better, I haven't gone out, I been coming straight home every day, please don't push me away. He seems to be worried about my feelings, because like I said he call several times today. Or is he checking to see if I will end/walk out?<P>Help me I am hurting, but I can't go home to show my pain. He doesn't want to deal with it anymore. He feels it been discuss and that's it before it drives him away. He is in love with me and wants to be with me and marry me. <P>I am confused. How do you all see this? Help me, hurting bad. <BR>