Can't understand why, but he doesn't want me anymore. Doesn't want to touch any part of me. Calls me bad names. Doesn't care about anything that I say. Doesn't want to kiss me. Doesn't want to be around me. Tells me that he needs space. Don't want to let go, but it seems hopeless.

Hi hopeless,<P>The marriage builders way of explaining this would be that your husband's love bank balance has fallen below the point where he feels he is in love. Have you read Dr. Harley's Basic Concepts yet? They provide a wealth of insight...

Hopeless,<P> Honestly I don't understand why you are still with this man, what is the point? I can maybe understand the no kissing, touching or the listening but the fact that he calls you names that hurt you indicates that he has no respect for you.....words hurt more than anything in this world. A real man never puts down a woman or anybody else with anything. Have you asked yourself what good are you getting out of this relationship. A real partner is someone that makes your life better by bringing in to the relationship his qualities. A real partner makes your life better by complimenting your life with his. If he shows no sign of wanting to change then don't bother with him. You need someone who will help you become a better person in life, you deserve a good man. If he calls you names now it means that he never loved you in the first place; name calling is the worst thing you can do to any body. You might never get an answer as to why he has changed so much and you just might have to go on with your life and when you find the right person you will forget all of the bad things that you are going through now.

yeah right !<BR>and its all happening with hopeless with no reason huh!<BR>lady why you are not telling the whole truth? you must have done something which pisses him off.<BR>like my sweet lady, a total disaster to my life, I spent lot on her, what ever she wanted, if I could, I bring her. Every day I come home a bad news is waiting for me “something got wrong with computer and its acting funny I don’t know why” (my wife is a computer programmer, and don’t have a clue about what got wrong). “Honey why my clothes have these white patches ?” “ oh I poured bleach before water in washer…. Sorry.”<BR>“ yeah but did you check my pockets I had $ 40 in my jeans?”<BR>“oops”<BR>I believe hell is better place for me<BR>Sick and tired of these kind of **** everyday,<BR>I dont know why ppl should get married, I dont see a catch in it, its total loss, and by the way only thing I gain through marrige is Fat on her body, lots of them.

and if [censored] is so bad word, that we can even see it posted in this forum, we should die of Constipation