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I live with my girlfriend in my own flat and iam very jelous of her. This has always been a problem but has been more noticable now that we are living together. Iam jelous that she talks to other guys even though they are her friends. We are very happy together (i think) and i want to live with this girl forever but iam scared that ill lose her over my jelousy. What can i do to stop this???<p>Please can somebody help!!!!!
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Have you talked with your GF about the feelings you're having? Extreme jealousy can drive a perso away for sure. My H was this way when we were dating and I ended our relationship a few times because of it.<p>They are your feelings ad you should try to figure out why you feel this way and own them - try not to blame her for what you feel. It doesn't sound like you suspect her of cheating on you.<p>Good luck!<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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Why do you think you are you jealous of her friendships w/ other men? <p>Do you have women that you are friends with?<p>Have there been other women in your past that cheated on you or that you cheated on, and you may be carrying that into this relationship?<p>How do you veiw relationships as a whole? Do think feel that just because your living together she 'belongs' to you and is no longer her own person?<p>Look at your past relationships and see what might trigger this inside you...and realize she's NOT those other women...
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