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Well gang, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
I thought it would only be right to post this one over here.
Famous Quote from my Mother "if you're good enough to live with them you are good enough to marry them"
Well if maybe I would've disobeyed her I wouldn't be divorced , but if I would've listened to her this time I wouldn't be looking for a new place and be so bitter towards him
Breif history:
Married and Divorced one child, met a man from my son's daycare who too has a son. Asked me to move in I thought about it and well we were always together why not save money (not like he needs too he makes too much that he doesnt know what to do with it), anyway got rid of my apartment (it was darling) and moved in well anyway 2 months later tells me he is still in love with ex and wants the family that he son was born into. Grant it wife has a boyfriend and does not want him.. But now I just have so much anger towards him for hurting me and my son...
Any suggestions welcome
J
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That is not a very good situation to be stuck in. If I were in your shoes I would constantly be looking at him and seeing his ex's face. You shouldn't have to feel like you have been his second choice. He has made it very clear that since he can't have his ex he is going to have to "settle" with you. I really wouldn't be worried about the relationship you have with him as much as how you are going to be able to find somewhere else to live if his ex ever does want him back. He is "screaming" out that you really aren't the one so why just sit there and wait for him to leave you and your son high and dry. If I were you I would start looking for somewhere else to live, and don't misunderstand me you can still be with him if you desire but it is reallly obvious that he isn't ready to be moving in with anyone at all. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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I really have no intentions of staying with him I actually despise him.. It is really hard for me to find a place suitable and in my price range. Where as he, He makes 95,000 a year it is easier for him too.. Thank you for your reply
Wishin us all well
JJ
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