I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 yrs and 8 months. we are both 20 years old. i go to college at home in westchester, ny. he goes to albany, ny.were in our second year in college. he thinks we should live together first. i want us to get married but we really dont have the money for it if we were.i dont mind living together first. what should i do? i want us to have a life together already cuz i cant stand not being with him. please someone reply!!!!