goodhusband1,

I have moved your post to the "General Questions II" forum where I believe you will get more support, advice and guidance.

This forum is mainly for those couples NOT married seeking advice.

You can find the "General Questions II" forum by clicking on the "HOP TO" rectangle on the bottom of this page and selecting "General Questions II"

If you have questions or need help, feel free to email me ..

JustUss2@aol.com