<br>My husband works out of town all
<br>week. 2 wks. ago, I found out that
<br>he had gone on vacation with his
<br>buddies, when I thought he was at
<br>work! And 2 years ago he did the
<br>same thing, they had went to Miss.
<br>to gamble. But finding out he did it
<br>again 2 weeks ago has really hurt
<br>me. (He lost a lot of money, too!)
<br>It caused alot of problems with our
<br>marriage the 1st time, and I feel if
<br>he really cared about me, he would
<br>know that it would hurt me. He has
<br>done this about 5 times in our 7
<br>years of marriage--always with the
<br>same guy. I don't like to be lied
<br>to, and now I find it hard to
<br>believe him about anything! I feel
<br>like a fool, I don't give him a
<br>reason to lie to me. The only
<br>counseling he'll get is online (he
<br>says) but whenever I find one, it's
<br>not time, or a show is on tv! He has
<br>all the money & I would be hurt
<br>financially, bad, but I deserve more
<br>respect than that. He says I'm
<br>making a big deal out of nothing! My
<br>heart is numb.He's addicted to his
<br>buddy.