It's my second year of graduate school and my husband and I are nearing our third anniversary. We relocated so that I could go to school less than a year after our marriage. We didn't really have enough time to work on us before we had to go through other adjustments--new school, new city, not being around family (we lived very close to both of our families). He is a fine art photographer so between his art and my school we both are on "withdrawal tracks." I'm trying to take this summer to get into some better habits, knowing it will save my marriage and just found this site yesterday. I was hoping to find some specifics of how to maintain/improve a marriage in addition to graduate school. Any tips on that particular topic is appreciated. (I know I've left out many pertinent details, but I'm trying to keep this short). Thanks. Lisa S.
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Hello All, (wanted to shuffle this to the top again)
<p>It's been a while since I posted my initial message about Graduate School Damage, specifically, the time that graduate school takes away from being able to cultivate the marriage at all. (So after months of academic crazyness you realize the marriage is withering away).
<p>If anyone has any insights or strategies for this specific situation, I would be grateful for them.
<p>Cheers, Lisa