Never mind Soory<p>[This message has been edited by Wayne Wood.]

DearStephandKillian
<br>SorryforthemessintheeditingdepartmentIre-wrotethisinMSWORDtocorrectitandpastedmynewmessage.
<br>Thankyouforyouradvice.WhatImeantby"Notsupportingherandthechildrenfinancially"isthatIhadmadeapromiseatthebeginngthatIwouldtakecareofherandthechildren.WhenIquitmyjobwesufferedfinanciallyformorethantwoyears.Shetoldmeshehadnomoretogiveasfarasemotionalsupportwasconcerned.Shewaslosingherselfintheprocess.Ineedtore-establishthattrustagain.Anyothersuggestions?
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Wayne,
<p>Alot would depend on where you are now. Have you gotten a job? Have you both recovered from the two years of finacial stress? Is everything in order for you to take care of her and the kids finacially now? How long ago was this two years of stress? I think as far as trying to regain her trust, when it comes to this, it will take some time. While she is away show her how much you want to take care of her. Are you helping her finacially now? I know that for me there was a point in my own marrige where I had to tell my H to get with the program or I was getting out because I was not going to let him drag me and the kids down with him. Fortunatly he responded. Is this the first time she had mentioned this or has she mentioned it before and finally reached the end of her rope. And I think most importantly, is this the only problem she has or is this just the easy one to say. It seems to me there could be more to this than she is saying.
<br>Steph