Well i took the chance and asked her if we could talk. I remembered what Wayne said be short and sweet. I told her I feel so lonely. She replied now you know how I felt for so many years. I listened to what she had to say and offered no comment,she told me she would come up to me and hug me my arms would drop to my side..she would say I love you and I would say nothing in return. She told me the situation when she lost her feelings,she was fixing a screen and she was so frustrated that right then and there she lost them. She added if anything around here needed fixed she did it. I might add I didn't say a word as she was talking.
<br> So I did a what if situation...I showed her all this I went up to her and hugged her I went up to her and kissed her I went behind her and rubbed her shoulders,she replied I like all that.
<br> Maybe Iam the one that needs the counseling on how to show my feelings towards her. In my opinion after a few sessions with me he is going to want to talk to her and I feel she won't go or she will go with the attitude this not going to work for me.
<br> Any comments would be greatly aprecitated
<p> thanks again
<br> Jim

Jim
<br>I only responded to your posting on 15th (Saturday) just noe as you will read the reason for the delay. As to your present situation. Your on the right track here. You have to make the first move in seeing a counceler. You have to show herr not tell her what your're going to do, actions speak louder than words my freind. So get yourself together and make the first move. Sorry but I'm very tired and have to work early in the A.M.. I'll check back soon to see how things are going.
<p>Regards
<br>Wayne