I know where she went and she is safe and has the girls with her and they are safe too. My oldest stayed here with me last night. Mom is coming topick her soon to take them to new place
<br> There were several things that wife asked of not to do.
<br> Don't call her unless it concernes the girls.
<br>Wants space,,which i have given her
<br>Don;t make demands on her such as How long will you be gone etc...
<br>She wants me to go back to work she said this only cause more problems. But does anyone care how jim feels? I need to time to sit back and relax too as she is.
<br> I went to see my minister yesterday i felt pretty good when i left. He agreed that I should relax and think. Now iam between a rock and hard place Do I go to work? IF i don't go this might cause my wife to go further and further away from me.
<br> Or did i sit and relax to give myself peace of mind as she is doing now.
<br> Plus my doctor put me on medication to calm my nerves down (antivan) they sure calm you down.
<br>What should i do?
<br>any comments would be greatly taken in consideration
<p> thanks for all your help
<br> Jim