I have not posted for the past couple of days. Basically because I had a super weekend with my wife. On Friday evening, we had a long CONVERSATION. Yes. We talked about feelings, and things in the past, and what's going on now. She expressed her feelings on things that I did/didn't do that had always bothered her. I expressed my feelings. I was draining, emotinally and physically. Saturday was similar.
<br>It was not easy. I don't remember, ever, talking to her this open.
<br>This has not changed her unhappiness, or that "IN LOVE" feeling in her. But, it does make me understand what it is that we are talking about. When she mentioned some of the things, I felt awful that I never considered her feelings in these actions.
<br>What hurts the most is knowing that we could have just talked like this for years, and probably avoided much of what we are going through.
<br>She found this site and might even read this. She said that it doesn't bother her that I use it, but she finds nothing in it.
<br>Bruce,
<br>I know it's discouraging at times. I don't blame my wife for feeling this way. I have come to realize that I have been fairly emotionless for quite some time. I don't know if it was the "out of love" thing, but it was something.
<br>Keep trying.
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