KS,
<p>I agree with you that most men do look. I look. When I see a beautiful woman I can't help but notice it. The point is what do I do from there?
<br>Even if I am by myself I do not do a 180 if a woman walks by or slow my car down if I see one on the street. Do I ever have the impulse to do so? Yes, I do. But I have learned, and am still learning, that what you do when no one is looking is just as important as what you do when people are looking. In fact it's probably more important because if you do a lot of things in private that you won't do in public or in front of your spouse then you're leading a schizoid life.
<br>When I am with my wife she deserves my utmost respect. When I am not with my wife she deserves my utmost respect. That's the controlling factor for me, not to mention what Scripture says.
<br>All this from a guy who's having the marital problems I'm having. I know it seems like there might be some inconguity here. But this is my honest belief and my honest actions.

<FONT SIZE="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><B>KenS

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